Engels

Smoking: No
Occupation: Work for a private civil rights foundation. Yea, I believe a few people and a few good deeds can save the world.
Interests: African American & GLBT culture and community, faith, family, friendship, education, and the arts. My college alma mata
Favorite TV Shows: Law and Order (the original), and almost anything on A&E and the History Channel, CNN, and talent absed reality shows (Project runway and Top Chef) and the cute weather guy on Chanel 9.
About Me : 1) I'm looking for date to turn into a friend to turn into a boy friend to turn into a husband.
I believe chastity, patience, and vegetarianism are virtues. I am not virtuous. I only workout so I can maintain my bad eating habits. My bad habits but GREAT restaurants are winning. I'm over 40, so Im not against dating men with a high credit limit and low self esteem. I like "average", bright, passionate, clean cut, boys next door, both as friends and more and I think shy guys are cute as hell. Also, nothing inhaled or injected please. I need every neuron I've got just to get through the day, and it's still a struggle.

I believe in three things: Faith, Family and Friendship.
I believe:
Anything worth doing is worth doing with and for the people you love.
Family and friendships are not about how often you see them but rather the celebration of everyday experiences and achievements. I am blessed to have family that is affirming and accepting that no matter how frustrated I may get with my parents, I am lucky to have them with me & I will miss them when they are gone. In a God, a supreme being, a Jehovah, and a higher power and that my life was not a fluke spark in a dark universe but part of a bigger plan. I believe my life is richer because of how diverse my friendships are. I believe I am an optimist and that most people are intrinsically good.

I'm not perfect, nowhere near perfect. Not interested in dating a guy that's perfect. I can't handle that kind of pressure.

If you're a veteran, a teacher, fireman or policeman thank you very much. You're my hero.

If you've read this far, you might as well send me a message.

Weegschaal

Een paar extra kilo's

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Bruin

Afro-Amerikaans

Single

Nee

Niet Zeker

Glimlach

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Zwart

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Iets Anders

Progam Officer for a Private Foundation

Tussen de €75.000 en €100.000

Alleen

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Cool

Vriendelijk, Grappig, Flirterig, Gezellig

Knutselen, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Tv, Films, Spellen, Eten, Theater, Koken, Kaarten spelen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

(1) Cocktails, theater, dinner and then dessert to talk about the day and the play. (2)go to the grocery store and shopping, going home to cook dinner, watching a good movie wrapped up on the sofa (3) snowed in with a fire place, fire wood, board games and all the things you need to make home made gourmet pizza (and breakfast in bed..love making breakfast in bed)

Scuba diving and touring China or the middle east.

Vriendelijk, Cool

Christelijk

Een keer per maand

Settle down with a partner that can enjoy the public service life I lead, the social life I/we would have together externally and relaxing times at home with just the two of us or a close kntt group of friends. Adding to the mix, maybe adopting a child but thats still in debate.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk

Nieuws, Documentaires, Drama's, Films

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie

Pop, Jazz, Soul

Nieuws, Biografie, Geschiedenis, Humor, Politiek

a long weekend away with my friends in a large rented house or a cabin. Small dinner parties in the winter and jazz in the park picnics in the summer.

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Humor, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid

smeone who can join me and understand how to:
Live with intention
Walk to the edge
Listen hard
Practice wellness
Play with abandon
Laugh
Choose with no regret
Continue to learn
Appreciate your friends
Do what you love

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid