Hey there I am a good man - whimsical, super square (now) but if there was ever trouble to be found, I've been there... I am about to turn 50 it's time for me to commit to being who I really am. I can't seem to be attracted or interested in dating white guys, so here I am. It is so easy for me to fall in love with a man with dark skin and eyes, so if it's easy for you to fall in love with a beige man with a past, let's have a conversation. Let's be interested in more than just sex, and let's be highly interested in sex! I am tal - 6'2" - and I like a big man, too, but I am not limited to that. I pretty much love everyone, but who I fall for, there's an element of surrender that takes place on my part, so if you like to pounce on your pretty white man and gently take what you want, I can respond to that. I enjoy the giving up of something, or submitting to something so you can get what you want, and that IS how I get what I want. Mostly, I want to be vulnerable and so in love with you that you are nourished by it and want you to feel free to be vulnerable with me. I promise to make you beautiful, no matter what you look like. It's okay if we start out with you thinking you are not good looking, have a big stomach, etc... I'll be honest if I can't work with it, and I would want that from you, too. If/when we do fall in love, you will be my king, and I want my king not to leave. In spite of my good looks, I have scars, too, and am getting signs of age, like white hairs and a little out of shape - you gotta be able to be with me just as I am and actually appreciate the total package. I am no longer going to win any beauty contests, but once upon a time, I was an angel, and that beauty still resides...

I work making a difference in a third world country and what I'd ultimately like is someone who likes that I do that, even if it's not their thing. I would support you in loving what you do, or doing what you love. A good life with a good man is all I am out to create. What about you? What are you creating?

Virgo

Average

6' 2 (1.88 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Single

No

Hands

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Brown

No pets

Some College

Other

Artist/Founder & CEO of a nonprofit

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Outcast

Outgoing

Volunteering

Relaxing

with someone who is present, and open and willing to let it happen. It doesn't really matter what we're doing or where we are. We are the focus and we have a conversation in which it's easy to share about life. We are not attached to the first date leading us anywhere. We are not resisting any attraction, if there is some, and not afraid to own it if there isn't. We respect each other and are looking for compatibility vs reasons to reject.

There is a lot I'd like to do, and I am open to new things, but not so sure about the word TRY in relation to my wants. I either do it or I don't do it. There are some things I'd like to DO, and a few I would not like to do. I do not, for instance, want to have a large spider crawl along my naked arm! I'm not doing that! Also probably not jumping out of an airplane, but open to just about everything else.

Goofy

Not Religious

Well, what I'm committed to is being who I want to be and doing what I want to do or what I am passionate about, having fun, loving profoundly and making a difference with people. I have reached this goal many times, and there's always more to do, so it's not a destination. It's constant dance, and if one of those is happening, I'm who I want to be.

Clever, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

News, Movies, I Don't Like Tv

Drama

News, Instructional, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Satire, Technical

Number one without a doubt - to be in the presence of love OR to be naked and in the presence of love! Another aspect of that would be being horizontal and looking into the eyes of love. Another aspect, hearing the moans of pleasure coming from you from what I'm doing to you, or what you are doing to me. Beyond that, to have someone who is struggling with something let go of the the struggle and create something new. To have great friends around to laugh and play with. To produce amazing results with one's day. It's fun to be together doing nothing. Nothing leads to something and I am committed to making whatever I'm doing fun.

Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness

I look (and listen) for the possibility of profound, unconditional love being fulfilled, and for the moment when someone gets inspired by who they are. I look (and listen) for a persons greatness. I look for softness and openness and connection, for interests and enjoyment, for kindness. I look beneath the surface of your identity so find who is really there.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed